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Is it okay for a women to go and chat to a man?

Depends really on too many different variables to answer this simply.

Scenario 1 The guy is shy and lacks self confidence he is likely to back off

Scenario 2 He does not fancy you and once again backs off

Scenario 3 He is married or in a relationship, yes, once again he backs off.

In the scenarios above how would you feel, rejected, a failure. Really you should be thinking, "Well one down, plenty to go".

You can try the more subtle feminine approach of letting him know you are there. Let it be him that chases after you.