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Steps to attract a man
Before the steps a few questions
Why do you think you cannot attract a mate?
If you have other reasons that are not listed, please forward then to me and I will
add them to this list along with guidance on what you can do. email
Martin
Steps you can take to increase your odds.
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Confidence -- How you can increase
your confidence to go out and find that man. Sexy knickers, find out how they can
help.
- Appearance -- Split into many
smaller steps of how altering your appearance will help
- Venues -- Get yourself by
placing yourself where is going to see you.
- Contact -- Making that man
notice you.
- Chat -- What to say and what
not to say.
- Sex -- When to agree to have
sex, also is a section on how to keep him interested while you decide the time is
right to have sex
- Precautions -- If it can
go wrong, it will, lets look at Alcohol, Abuse, Condoms, Drugs, Rape etc and then
look at ways to minimise the risks..
I am too fat to attract males
Being fat does not mean that you cannot attract a male, but having an issue with
your weight can affect how you are perceived by potential males. Women that are
confident about their weight have very little problems attracting a male. Read the
step about confidence.
If you are still concerned about your weight then perhaps you may like to take positive
action to correct it. Coming soon will be a section on weight control.
Other women are more attractive
than me.
Is there the ideal perfect women that every man would find irresistible? No, since
each man has his own idea of the perfect women. Next time you are out shopping or
in other crowded places where couples are, I want you to look at the male and see
if he is your type, next look at the women with him and rate her on a scale of 1
to 10 on how good looking you consider her. You will notice that some really attractive
men are with really ugly women. Even for a male the same applies and we find ourselves
thinking what is she doing with an ugly git like him.
If you continue to consider yourself ugly then this is how you will project yourself.
When going out dress to attract a man, yes, but go out with a view to having a great
time with your friends and forget about looking for a man. In my experience, men
are more likely to go for someone that is having a good time than the person that
is sat miserable in the corner. The beautiful but miserable women does not
shine bright but so dull as to go unnoticed, whereas the plain Jane that is having
a great time shines with a light so bright that men cannot fail to notice her. Steps
on confidence and also on personal appearance may help.
You may find online dating can also help. Remember when posting your picture make
sure it is one of your better ones. All too often web cam pictures are used that
are none too flattering.
Online chat rooms are perhaps another avenue to explore.
I seem to always attract
the wrong kind of man.
There are many possible reasons why you be attracting the wrong kind of man and
hopefully once you have explored all this website you may then know why.
- You have the appearance of a married women. Read the step
about personal appearance,
- The way you dress gives the wrong impression.
- You are allow yourself to suffer from the 'Alpha Male Syndrome'
They have sex with me and then
move on.
A man will have a band of women that he will have sex with but a narrower band of
women that he will want to have a relationship with. Unless you are happy being
treated this way then read Step 6
I was married
and thought we were happy, now he has left me.
It is easy to blame yourself and look for reasons as to why he left you. You may
never know the reason, but why go on searching. Time now to push the emotional baggage
to the back of your mind.
- Find a group of women friends with which to socialize with
- Reinvent your look and cast off the look of a married women.
- Get out there and begin to enjoy what life has to offer.
Every
man I get close to either verbally or physically abuses me.
This could be a case of you falling for the 'Alpha Male', therefore you need to
know how to spot him and then keep clear.
My friends say I am stunning, but I only get losers trying to chat me up.
Little Miss attitude!!!. You think you are god's gift to men, since
you have the looks. Looks, however are skin deep and from your question I would
say that your personality stinks. Who the hell are you, to call men, that
have plucked up enough courage to try and chat to you, losers? If men behaved in
the same way without respecting you, how would you feel. Now bitch, go away, this
website is not for you, please go to a website that can alter your personality.
More to come later
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