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Sex -- When is the time right?

Before we get more into the subject, it is now official that after male ejaculation a homone is released that induces sleep.  So accept that he will turn over and begin to snore and break wind (fart to you and me). It is nothing to do with his partner but nature at work.

Sex too early in the relationship and he will not have time to fall for you, too long and he may start to look elsewhere. We men are funny creatures you know. On the one hand we want sex on the first night, however we do not want to share the rest of our lives with someone that was too easy. "If she gave in so easy to me, how many others men have been there before me, I wonder". That is a typical male thought on a women he had sex with on the first night.

My advice is to wait until after a few dates before having sex and only when you feel like you want to. If he really cares for you and not just your body he will be willing to wait. Sorry if you are feeling horny when you are with him, but do your best to resist, at least until the second date.

Wham bang thank you maam, is that the kind of man you want? Yes? Well okay let him get on with it and lay there thinking of England. Men are not born with the inbuilt ability to give a female orgasams. It is something they have to be taught or learnt. Your date maybe one that is knowledgable in the art of love making, many sadly are not.

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