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Online Dating.
My mother in law asked me why a particular young lady was on an online dating site.
"She would not have any problems getting a man if she went out for a drink", she
added. I had to agree with my MIL about the online dater's looks, she was gorgeous.
So why was she on this particular site? Without paying a subscription and actually
talking to the women I was left to ponder. It did not take long to come up with
an answer. If a stunning looking women goes around town to look for a man, she attracts
the attention of drunks and other most unsavourable men. Her mode changes and she
becomes more interested in repelling the less desirable males and less in finding
Mr Right. With online dating she can now search through the many men online and
allow men to find her online. She can choose which males chat to her. The cost is
around 4 drinks for a month.
How To Get That Man Online?
- Sort out different photos of yourself and with the aid
of a friend (a male is best, if available
) select one that is most appealing.
- Set up an online email account.
- Carry out a free search on each online dating site and
find which have most men matching what you are after.
- Think about what you are going to include in your profile.
- Sign up with as many as you can afford.
- Do not sit back and wait, carry out searches, send mails,
or winks to men that appeal to you.
- Messages/mails are best kept short.
- In every message/mail you send always make sure you ask
a question that requires a response.
- If there are a lot of men that you are mailing etc. keep
a journal with information about them.
- Get him to send you some additional photos of himself via
your online email account.
Listen here you women, you have the advantage over men once again,
online dating agencies love to have female clients and offer significantely lower rates to join.
Before getting into online dating further let's scare you half to death first. You need to read about the risks.
Okay now you know the risks and measures to mimimise them we can proceed.
FACTS
Most men are like
Shallow Hal
when it comes to online dating. By this I mean they first scan through the photographs
before looking at the profiles.
How to win at online dating:-
- Include your picture in your profile, most men will look through picture profiles
first.
- Your profile should be written with honesty, albiet not the whole truth, so you
have kids put it down. Your a size 24, well okay put "big and bubbly" or
"big and soft not skin and bone".
More to follow, once I have checked out online dating
agencies
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