It is not only in fairy tales that frogs can turn in handsome Princes

1. Shallow Hal or Shallow Sal

2. Looks change, personality remains

3. Dream lover.

4. Mr Right.

5. Practical Considerations

Learn to be a women

1. Men that are men do not want to date another man.

2. What is a woman to a man?

3. Walk like a woman.

4. Talk like a woman.

5. Act like a woman

6. Men do not want to compete with a woman.

7. Your his prize, be worthy of it.

8. Make him feel like a man.

9. Let him think he is the boss.

10. Treat him like a man.

Fragrance Can Turn A Man's Head

1. Men will turn around to see where a particular aroma is emanating from.
2. The scent of a women stays with a man.
3. Do not overdo it since you can block natural female pheromones.
4. Test a perfume to see if it matches your skin chemistry.
5. Apply to your pulse points, behind the ears, your wrists and behind the knees.
6. Use an antiperspirant or deodorant.

Leaving nothing to the imagination can attract men with no imagination.

1. Men like to imagine what is beneath clothing.

2. Hide those bulges all women have.

3. Without knickers could mean you remain without a man.

4. A little ankle showing beneath trousers goes a long way.

5. Keep knickers covered up until the time is right.

6. Topless and wearing 'G' string bikini bottom against a short skirt, which gets most attention?

Dare to be Different

1. Wear clothes that make you stand out from the others.
2. Do not look like a tart or a prostitute touting for business.

Your hair can be like a beacon

1. Your hair can make a man want to know what you look like.

2. Long hair is more appealing to men in most cases

3. Short hair is worn by lesbians

4. Clean healthy looking hair makes men want to run their fingers through it

5. Too much lacquer spoils the moment.

Natural or Dyed?

1. Avoid the bleached blonde look
2. Men like to see natural looking hair
3. Highlights can work wonders.

Heels can either make you or break you.

1. Men love to see calves

2. Wear heels to make them more noticeable

3. Make sure you can walk like a women in shoes with heels.

Lips, make yours look like they want to be kissed.

1. Men love to see lips that are full

2. Red lips are more desirable to men than pink.

3. Avoid browns etc.

Focus his attention on your eyes for the right reason.

1. Let your eyes speak for you.

2. Mascara will make your eyes more appealing.

3. Avoid too much eye shade.

Eyebrows, pluck or not to pluck.

1. Pluck only to maintain a good shape

2. Never totally pluck your eyebrows and use a pencil liner.

Did I really fancy her last night? Or how much makeup to apply

1. Men prefer naturally looking women.

2. You may get him in bed but will he regret it the following day?

3. Avoid looking like a 'Baby Jane'

4. Use makeup to hide little blemishes, not to change your appearance.

Overweight - What to do

1. Not all men like stick insects.

2. Men are programmed to look for child bearing hips.

3. Do not assume you are overweight, use a BMI to work out what you should weigh

4. Energy in, minus energy exerted equals storage in fat.

5. Check with your doctor before starting on any exercise or weight loss plan

6. Gyms can be a good place to meet new friends and especially men.

7. Increase in metabolic rate burns continues to burn calories.

8. Type 2 diabetes can occur in overweight people.

Reality Check Time

1. There is no Mr Perfect and there is no Mr Right either, stop waiting for him.

2. Romantic novels are pure fiction, real life is never so perfect.

3. Men are different to women, learn that and you are well on your way

4. Not all men are equal

5. Relationships have to be worked at.

6. Not all men are Shallow Hals.

7. A line from an Osmond hit is 'One bad apple does not spoil the whole bunch, no!!!'

Book Reviews

There are many books relating to dating on the market, but are they any good? If you have read one and wish to pass on your comments so that other readings can benefit, email me with the details. date_doctor@pulltheboys.co.uk. your email will not appear on the website, so only you and I will know you have read it.

My first read on the subject is by an American authoress called Romy Miller. The book is titled "Man Magnet. Read my review.

Romy does not hold  back in telling how it is for you girls in the dating game. I found myself agreeing with 99% of all she says to make yourself into a man magnet. British culture and American culture are sometimes different and what works in one country does not always work in the other. This book is different in that it can all be applied to the British way of life. Some terms like 'Ho' are used, but I think we all watch enough TV to translate these into English. Like this website you get an understanding of what makes a man tick, and how best to use your feminine gifts to win him over. Once you have him there is sound advice on how to keep him.

The 1% I found that we did not agree about

1. She says men prefer women to be nude but I have to disagree, we (men that is) like to get women nude, but prefer some mystery, it adds to the excitement.

2. I would have more respect for a women offering to go Dutch on the first date, since then I know I am not just a meal ticket. Also I'm less likely to expect a jump at the end of the evening. Romy says not to go Dutch or even suggest it.

My overall verdict:- A good book for the bookcase.

To obtain yours try AmazonUK, AmazonUSA (often they have second hand books cheaper)

Men are from Mars

Feminists hit this link, Home Page. You will not like what is written here.

Men's Thoughts

1. Women are a prize to be won.

2. I want to get into her pants tonight.

3. I now own her, she is mine.

4. I'm the boss.

5. Men and women will never not equal.

6. We men are stronger than women.

7. Women are so confusing.

Men Talk

1. "Bet she is good in bed."

2. "I'd take her to bed, but marry her? Don't make me laugh, she's a slut."

3. "She is so boring in bed, just lays there."

4. "All she talked about was her friends getting married."

5. "Once she opens her legs, that is it mate, I'm in and out of there like a shot."

6.  "Her over there, yes her, your guaranteed it with that one mate"

7. "Look at that dirty slut, no knickers"

8. "What did I have to drink last night?. I woke up next to a proper minger"

9. "Nag, nag, nag, all the time, dumped her in the end."

10. "Stupid cow, binned my porno videos."

Chatting Men Up

You see a man in a bar and really, really fancy him. Do you go over to him and tap him on the shoulder. "Hello handsome where have you been all my life." It might work but lets look at what he might be thinking.

1. What the hell so I do now.

2. Where is the nearest exit, let me get out of here

3. Bet she is on the game?

4. I'm married and not giving that up for anyone.

5. What is she after an easy drink, do I look so gullible?

6. Wonder what her game is, who's put her up to it?

7. She is so ugly I would not shag her with my worst enemy's p***k, let alone mine.

8. She is not too bad, looks like I'm in luck tonight.

There is a better way to chat him up girls.

1. Try and catch his eye from where you are and smile.

2. Walk past and make sure you get eye contact and say hello with that knowing smile.

3. "Have you got the time please", is a good ice breaker.

4. If you smoke and he is smoking, ask him for a light.

5. Romy Miller in her book "Man" suggests bumping into him. Not sure if that would work, but do let me know.

His Response for one to four, not sure on five.

Heels can either make you or break you.

1. There is nothing that a man likes to see than a well shaped leg.

2. By wearing heels you will highlight your calves even more.

3. Make sure you can walk in the shoes, I might notice you, but it will be for how clumsy you look.

4. Too high a heel can be impractical to wear

Feet

Now I'm not saying all men have a foot fetish but.

At some point men, particularly the one your dating will be examining every part of your body they can see. This includes your feet. A man generally expects a women's body to be soft and smooth. Imagine his shook and horror to find a pair of feet that are cracked, full of corns and bunions. Nails that are cracked and tainted with the colour of fungal infections. Another aspect of a women is her aroma, this should be sweet. Imagine a man that is being romantic, begins to undress you, and wants to kiss your whole body. He removes your shoes and, oh dear what an odour, it takes his breath. If you are the latter then consider taking action or else look for a man with no sense of smell.

In a Nutshell

1. Paint your toe nails red.

2. Have a regime of foot care.

3. Get a treatment for any fungal infections.

4. Moisturisers are made especially for feet, use them.

5. Foot odour is caused by either fungus or bacteria, take action now.

Teeth

1. There is nothing like a smile that reveals clean white straight teeth, or a laugh that shows no amalgam fillings.

2. Teeth enamel is not pure white and there are different shades

3. Brace yourself, well rather wear one if your dentist advices or ask if you think you teeth are misaligned.

4. Would you like to kiss a man with bad breath? No, and neither would a man want to kiss you.

5. A bird in the mouth or is it Thrush?

6. Missing or rotting teeth, get them seen to, even if it means wearing dentures.

7. Plenty of money to spend, then consider having posts instead of dentures

8. Go for a regular dental check up.

9. How often do you change your tooth brush?

10. Sugar free gum, when chewed after a meal can actually reduce tooth decay.

11. Do not chew gum on first few dates however, it does not appear lady like.

12. Consider teeth whitening, but ask your dentist first.

13. Gingivitis, and gum disease, get it fixed.

Is it okay for a women to go and chat to a man?

Depends really on too many different variables to answer this simply.

Scenario 1 The guy is shy and lacks self confidence he is likely to back off

Scenario 2 He does not fancy you and once again backs off

Scenario 3 He is married or in a relationship, yes, once again he backs off.

In the scenarios above how would you feel, rejected, a failure. Really you should be thinking, "Well one down, plenty to go".

You can try the more subtle feminine approach of letting him know you are there. Let it be him that chases after you.

Wandering Palms

Men are only after one thing!!!!

If you are silly enough to give it to us we are going to take it. It is in our genes to try and plant our seed in many many women. We are thus programmed to try and get it whenever we can. If I were a women I would be worried if a man did not try it on with me. So ladies the secret of getting a long term relationship is the same today as was in my grandmother's days.

Best contraceptive,  best way to get a man, keep your bloody legs closed tight. If he wants you, he will wait, if sex is his only goal, watch him run.

You can however keep him interested by dangling a carrot, by implying that you are ready to have sex with him when the time is right. That is providing you are going to have sex at a later date. The dates in between can give him time to get to know you and sex for him will be better since he had to work and wait for it. His respect for you will be higher.

The man will be thinking, "This women was not easy but I managed to get her to submit to my will". You have made him feel very special. I know sounds strange but we men are strange creatures, I keep telling you that.

Players love women that open their legs on the first night or even second, why? Well, players know that they will not have a chance to fall for the women but will have their lust satisfied.

Feminine Approach To Chatting A Man Up

Let us assume that you have done all the preliminaries and see a man you fancy. He does not notice you looking at him. You can go home and never know or else you can take action.

Move yourself into a position where you are in his line of sight. If your eyes meet smile and see if he returns the smile. Do not give a cheesy false smile, yuck. Be natural, think how it will be kissing him later and smile at that thought. If he does not return your smile he is gay, married, courting, or bloody blind. What did it cost you, nothing. It cost him dearly though since he did not get you.

So you cannot make eye contact with him. Well gently bump into him and he will turn around and look at you and then give him that smile, he will not believe his luck having a women like you bump into him. You can then engage him in conversation at this point provided he smiles back at you.

Is He Interested In Me Or Just Being Friendly?

I Only have eyes for you.

The above is from a song and should be used for your guide. If his eyes look into yours or if he allows them to take in your face, your body and does not seem interested in what is going on around, then babe your in there. Okay, so a naked women walks by, he might look then, sure he is a man after all.

Couples also tend to mimic the actions of each other too. Watch him when you lift your drink up, does he lift his? Wow, things are looking up. Pupils can dilate too when a man likes you, but in discos it may just be the poor lighting. Did he have little bags under his eyes when you first saw him, does he have them now? Time to move on to the next stage babe, you have pulled him for sure.

Move on to hand in hand

Hand in Hand

There are five steps to courtship, well okay getting someone into bed if you like.

We are going to look at step one, which is hand in hand.

So you are chatting to him and he does not seem to be making any moves and you are still unsure if he does fancy you. (You have read Is He Interested In Me Or Just Being Friendly? I hope). Let your hand make contact with his. If he is interested in you his hand should want to touch yours and before long your hand is being held by his. If he retracts it quickly then begin to suspect all is not what it seems.
He might not be making a move because he cannot believe that a women like you could ever fancy him and thus is afraid that if he does, you will leave.

Sounds so simple that it cannot work? Well girls it really does, just try it next time. Bet you will not email, telling me it does not work.